Sunday

Busier than usual with lola and lolo in town for four days. Am relieved that C resisted his all too natural impulses to be obnoxious - which he can be, unfortunately. As a mother, I find it rather difficult not to take these tendencies personally. Guilt is all the more tough to ignore when parents are in the midst. It's ironic how much more difficult and challenging parenting becomes when your own parents are on hand with any number of ready comments. Even the ones that remain unsaid blare out at you as though on dolby sound speakers.

Still, it was a fun visit and even C had moments of ingratiating amiability that made up a little for the bursts of brattiness. K, of course, was the little people pleaser, winsome and winning. Many good meals were had - Spagheddis, Wolf at Brasserie - adults only, Jumbo at Riverwalk and Marina Square food loft. Not to forget Chili con carne at home. I marvel too at the many errands that managed to be done - although we did not get to do any fun outdoor things or even the one indoor thing that I had planned. We should have been to Serenade. We should have made it to the Regent for the Sothebys auction exhibit. But it was not to be. Dentist and ear appointments for Kaylee, catechism, even a run at the track on Saturday afternoon and Saturday evening mass... and then today, the exhausting Chinese lessons, plus all the shopping for this, that and the other. ID pics were taken, school shoes bought along with school bags. Even managed to get Melin to crank up the crockpot for beef stew so we wouldn't be forced to go out to dinner tonight because at this point in my life, though I have the skills and the knowledge, I really can't be bothered to cook myself.

So now, the kids are doing homework and we're puttering around. T is trying to keep awake through K's 14 pages of homework that she had "forgotten" is due tomorrow. Am trying to get enough gump to hit the elliptical trainer for at least half an hour. Contemplating a fast tomorrow for the past few days excesses. Next week, T trips off to London for a criminal three days during which he has managed to book tickets to Wicked...lucky duck.

The bright spot this week? May 1 holiday and a new batch of HOUSE.